Church Man 'Wood Dead And Wont Get up

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I am 45, and three years ago I was introduced to a man by my ex lover. He and I broke up a long time ago.

We have always remained social friends and whenever I am in need, he helps me out. From the time we broke up, we never had sex. That was the agreement we made. Even when I felt lonely and I called him, he would tell me to go and take a cold shower and go to my bed. He promised me that he will get a good Christian man for me. He kept his word and he introduced me to a man who was a deacon in his church. I was so happy.

This man and I started to talk. He said he was once married but his wife divorced him because she was bad. He came to Jamaica to see me and he stayed at my house. I have two sons and I told my sons the situation. They decided that they would go and stay with my sister. This man stayed in their room. I treated him like a king. I cooked the best meal I could.

On the weekend, I decided to give him a real treat. My boys came home and we all had dinner together. After they left, I put on a nice lingerie and I tried my best to get this man in the mood, but nothing would arouse him. Please excuse me for saying this, but I 'went down on him' and then I realised that something was wrong. He could not get an erection. I asked him what was wrong. He said nothing was wrong with him, but the more I tried, is the more I felt that I was wasting my time. This man was only 75 years old.

I called my friend and asked him what wickedness I have done to him that he would send a man who could not function to my house. He said I probably got the man scared. I told him nothing I did worked. When this man came, he asked me if I could marry him. But when he was leaving, I told him that the marriage was off because I was still in good health and he is a dead man. He has called me many times since he left, but I have told him we can be good friends, nothing more.

I am now seeing a man who is 10 years my junior. My friends are telling me that I am a cougar, but I can't help it because I felt the need for a man. I love this young man. He gets along very well with my sons, and we only have sex when my children are not here. I want to get married; it is time. I don't want anything from a man but love. The father of my two sons is not a good man and that is why we broke up, but I love my boys.

S.A.