I am 23 years old, and have this problem with my boyfriend that is making me feeling miserable. I don't know my father. I grew up with my mother and grandmother.
My grandmother passed away when I was 17. My mother said she didn't want any man to come and interfere with me, so she did not allow any male to live with us.
But I suspected that my mother had a boyfriend. She would go out and return very late at nights, and at times, I was all alone.
When I turned 18, I got involved with a guy, and I introduced him to my mother. She had two things to say; she liked him and that soldier men hardly keep one woman.
I guess not all soldiers are like that because my relationship ended last year because all because he was a
Everything we talked about, he told his mother. It was as if his mother was making decisions for us, I didn't like that.
I have another boyfriend now. He does some weird things, and that's my reason for this letter, openly asking if this is normal.
I love him, but I believe that he is going to make himself sick one day. I asked him if what he does to me is what he did to other women and he said yes.
After I shave my armpits, he would ask me not to wear any deodorant. He would lick underneath my arm all night if I allow him.
He sucks it as how a baby would suckle on breasts. I asked him how he feels when he does that, and he said that he feels nice.
He does other things that are so weird. It tickled me at first. However, I am so accustomed to it, it doesn't tickle me anymore.
Is this normal?