I am 30 years old and I have been married for two years. My husband is 28 years old. Before we got married, we agreed that we do not want to have children until we have been married for two years. My husband and I are Christians.
We did not have sex before we got married. After we became engaged officially, one year before we got married, we were tempted to try having children, but we decided that we can wait another year.
My girlfriends always ask me how things are going and we will talk about sex. Some of my girlfriends ask me whether I enjoy having orgasm and I told them I enjoy sex, but it was long after some of them picked up that I don't know what they are talking about and they laughed at me.
One day over a drink, I asked two of them who were married for about five years to explain orgasm to me. One of them, who is very out spoken, said "Girl, when you experience it you know it." She said if you are not "popping off," you haven't experienced it.
My husband and I have bought books and read them. I know when he comes, I can feel it and he usually sighs; I don't feel anything, but I enjoy him. How can my husband make me 'pop off' or cum, as some people say?
Can I get pregnant without popping off?