I am a 42-year-old woman and I am divorced. The man I am going with now is 45 years old. The relationship is still young; only six months old.
But I am getting tired of this man questioning me in the most intimate way. I have already told him that I am not seeing anybody except him; that, I think, he has accepted. But he constantly questions me about my sex history.
The first time we met and we went out to dinner, I saw an old friend and we greeted each other at the restaurant. My date asked me if that man was one of the guys I used to go with. I told him no and then I asked him if it would have made a difference if that guy and I had gone out and even made love. The man behaved as a child.
I don't question him about his past. He has five children and they were not with one woman.
It doesn't bother me at all because these children are grown and I know he is not a saint. I am not a saint, either. I told him that if he doesn't stop questioning me, I am going to stop talking to him. Why would a man want me to tell him whether I have fantasies at my age and whether I still masturbate? He got very angry because I told him recently that it is not his business.
I have one daughter and she likes this man, but I do not discuss any sexual thing with my daughter, because I am a grown woman. One of the things that drew me to him is because he does not ask me for any financial help, and I like that. Some of the guys who have tried to take me out, after a few dates, they ask me for help and that turns me off.
So please, tell me how I can handle this man. I am at the place now where I feel that I should just tell him off and let him go about his business.
F.N.
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