I am 19 years old. I met a guy last December in a tourist-resort area. He is 30 years old, and he has a five-year-old child. He and the child's mother are not together anymore, but he supports the child.
I really admire that about him. He makes sure that his son gets what he needs. The problem I am having is that he's living with a young woman while we are having an intimate relationship.
He has his own house, and although he's living with this woman, I am really in love with him and he really likes me. He said that he wants to end the relationship with her because she has a son who doesn't have any manners to him. He has to be finding food and money to support them.
He also stated that she's not interested in seeking a job. He said that he doesn't want to seem ungrateful because when he and his child's mother were breaking up, she was there for him emotionally.
He said that he admires the fact that I am 19 years old, I am working, and I don't stress him out for anything. I want to have a child by him. We have tried, but it hasn't worked. We are continuing to try, but this time, I am confused.
When I look into the situation, if he's living with a woman and is saying that he doesn't want to be ungrateful to her, when I get pregnant by him, what's going to happen?
We talked about church and giving our lives to God. He is willing to work with whatever I say. Sometimes he says that he thinks he loves me too much because I have him doing whatever I say. I really like him, but I don't want to get myself into anything that I would regret.
Please give me your advice.