I am 28 years old and I have a woman who already has a child for me, and another on the way. I am a security guard and it's not easy because this type of work doesn't pay much. I love my girlfriend but she is very miserable, and if we have any disagreement, she would challenge me physically.
I am so ashamed to say that my girlfriend has boxed me twice, and the last time she did it, my mother was sitting right there, and my mother asked her if she was crazy. I grabbed her hand and was about to punch her. As I raised my hand, it was like an angel telling me not to do it.
My mother asked her why she would look at me and slap me, and she said
her mother used to slap her father all the time, so she doesn't see why she can't slap me. I told my mother right before her that it was she who encouraged me to stay with her because when I wanted to leave her because of what she was doing, my mother told me to give her another chance.
My sister spent two days with us and my girlfriend went into her bag and stole $5,000. My sister's boyfriend had given her $15,000 to do some business and she put the money in her bag and my girlfriend took out $5,000. I knew it was my girlfriend who took the money, but I pretended that my sister was wrong. But I had to give her back the $5,000. My girlfriend is nothing but a thief and yet when she goes to church, she says the loudest Amen.
I told her that I want her out of the house. I cannot take it anymore. So, right now, we are not living in harmony. She doesn't have anywhere to go. She told me she is not leaving. I have made up my mind to leave and when I am leaving, I don't want to take anything.
One of my brothers says I should leave the stove. It is a new stove I bought. So because of my child and the one she is carrying, I would leave that, and I plan to leave the dining table and the refrigerator. The bed is new and I am still paying for it, so she can keep that also.
Most times when we have an argument it's over a woman and I am not cheating on her, but my old girlfriend and I have a good relationship and she calls me sometimes. And, she is saying that the girl should not call me.
It is very embarrassing for me and the next time she hit me, I am going to break her hand.