I am 33 years of age. I have two children with this man I have known all my life. In the early part of the relationship, he started to show his true colors by fighting me and abusing me verbally.
Anyway, I couldn't get out of the relationship because I was young and I did not have anyone or anywhere to go.
Further into the relationship, after I had my second child, I started to date another guy. And the guy was good to me, and everything was going well. But this man, who was there before, would not leave me alone, no matter how hard I tried. Even when I moved out with the kids or without the kids, he trailed me. And he got men to watch me.
This man is a '
maama man'. Whenever I go out and return, he will come and smell my panties and my vagina. I am drowning in this relationship. I am wondering if this man tied me to him. Sometimes I wonder if it is 'woman strength' he has because I have seen him and other men have arguments and he had to calm himself.
This man even watches what color panties I put on when I am going to work, and what color I have on when I come in from work, to see if it is the same one I left in when I went to work.
I have found comfort in my new friend and we share a great sex life together. He lives in The Bahamas and he wants me to come and live there, but the children's father is a stumbling block in my way. He doesn't like it when I go out and enjoy myself.
I have to tell him lies. He does not even support me financially. I have to be throwing a little partner or borrowing small loans just to have money to buy stuff for myself and the children.
The guy in The Bahamas sends me money from time to time, but I don't want to burden him, although he is very understanding and we have a great relationship. He also loves my children and he wants to help me.
I have been with the children's father since I was 16 years old, but I knew him two years before I started living with him. I am awaiting your reply. Keep up the good work. Blessings on you.