I was the maid of honour at my best friend's wedding some years ago. The groom was a white guy from America and the bride was a beautiful black Jamaican woman.
That marriage has broken up, because the bride (my friend) did not tell this man that she had five children. She told him she had two and he agreed to marry her.
When the time came for him to file the papers, it was then that the truth came out.
She said she did not know that it would have caused a problem. I feel so sorry for her. But the problem I am having is that this man has turned on me.
He says that he loves me. I don't have any children. He is planning to divorce his wife, and he would still help her, but he does not want her in his life anymore.
To be honest I don't have a boyfriend neither a permanent job. I am getting to like this man. I told him that he should try and find a wife from America, but he says he loves Jamaican women.
My girlfriend told me that she knows that she is the one who screwed up and she would not hold it against me if I agree to marry him.
I would like to know if I would be doing the right thing.