I am a 25 years old man who got married in January to this woman in her early 40s. It was not an official marriage. We only did it because both of us attend a church and the rule were that we must get married before we can share a bed together.
My wife has three kids, I do not have any as yet.
Now that we got married and have fulfil the requirement of our religion, sleeping in the same bed, we would like to get married the legal way.
BUT, I have found early faults with this woman and I am rethinking the legal marriage process.
This woman doesn't want to go out and work.
She wants me to take care of her and her children. I told her several times that they are not my children and she said they are mine because we are married.
When I told my mother I was going to get married, she told me I was crazy. Now I cannot tell my mother my current condition.
She doesn't bathe every day and she wants me to sleep with her every night. She states that if I really love her, I must accept her as she is and don't complain.
Her children are respectful to me. I don't have any problem with them.
I want my wife to be clean and smell good like any other normal woman.
Do you think it is wrong for me to divorce her?
Please give me your advice.