Va'JJ tone or strength is just like the firmness of our skin or body size. Some women are born with firm, well toned skin whereas some are more flabby. As for body size, some of us have bigger build than others.
I think the same holds true for the Va'JJ. Some women are naturally looser or bigger than others.
When you have trouble holding your urine. – Many women with stretched Va'JJ have a problem with urine leakage. This happens especially when they laugh, cough or sneeze.
When you find that you need to insert bigger objects larger than your fingers into the Va'JJ for masturbatory stimulation and arousal it could be a sign that you have a looser Va'JJ.
When you can insert three or more fingers simultaneously into your va'JJ without significant resistance of your Va'JJ walls, chances are that you have a loose Va'JJ. Insert your index finger into your Va'JJ and try to grip it with your Va'JJ walls by contracting your Va'JJ muscles.
If you have difficulties to do this it is one more sign that you might have a loose Va'JJ.
When your can see the Va'JJ orifice when you take a Va'JJ selfie without spreading out the labia.
When you have difficulty to achieve an orgasm unlike before.
Taking in air during sex or the increase likelihood of air getting into the Va'JJ – known as ‘fanny farting’
When your hubby seems not into $ex like before and you have difficulties turning him on and satisfy him as before or when he suddenly begins to find it hard to climax or retain his erection after hours of intercourse.
When hubby demands that you close your legs tight during intercourse.
Now there are dynamics that needs to be explained properly.
You can determine Va'JJ looseness by doing the finger check or the kegel ball test. For the finger check test you need to slide your index finger into the Va'JJ and see if you can feel it. Then two fingers (index and middle) to gauge tightness as compared to 1 finger.
If you can slide in three fingers (middle, index and ring finger hold together) and can’t feel much, than most probably the Va'JJ is a bit loose.
Ben Wa ball test is done by holding the ball with your Va'JJ. The longer the better. A tight Va'JJ can hold the ball even you are squatting. Your Va'JJ tone is good if you can stand with legs wide apart without the ball dropping out. The Va'JJ is slack or loose if the ball drops out even if you are standing with your legs closed.
I don’t think any of us would want to be at the last stage of the above two tests before we do something about Va'JJ relaxation or loose Va'JJ, right? As we embark on our journey to womanhood – from puberty, virgin, sexually active adult, marriage, motherhood and menopause, the Va'JJ will undergo changes.
In my Va'JJ looseness myths, I have mentioned that childbirth and being sexually active will not loosen the va'JJ. BUT it will definitely be stretched. That’s inevitable.
Prevention is better than cure. Don’t wait until it is loose to do something about it. When the Va'JJ is tight, maintain that tightness with herbal supplements. And use herbal supplements to gradually restore slack Va'JJ tone.
I am sure we have heard lots of Va'JJ looseness myths, so it is time to address this issue and separate the myths from the truths.
Myth 1 : Va'JJ looseness is an indication that you are a good time girl.
Truth : The Va'JJ being a muscular tube will expand and stretch to accommodate whatever is inside it. When it is empty, the Va'JJ walls touch each other. In fact, having regular sex increases the muscle tone of the Va'JJ and not decrease it. Sex is a form of exercise. You can make love everyday for a year and it won’t make your Va'JJ looser than it was before. On the other hand abstaining from sex for a long time would not make your Va'JJ any tighter.
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